For most people when relationships don’t work and they move on. In moving on, they tend to carry some old baggage, what I’ll term as “excess load”. We know that it’s not quite easy to let go. So, why get into a relationship when you know you have not ready […]
A conversation with a friend you have not met in a very long while is capable of going awry. Imagine the conversation going this way: A: Hey, what’s up? Long time B: I’m fine, it’s been a while, I am where you left me. You just forgot me and are […]
Earlier, we were speaking about New Year’s resolution. If you won’t have any, please, make it your goal this year to ensure you treat people right. I feel 2019 should be the year of better relationships. There are so many people whose aim is to use other people. What we […]
I like to see secrets as a very small black box hidden in a very big dark room. We do not want them to be seen. They should be hidden forever. Do you know that some of these things we hide are insignificant, however? Why not say what it is […]
Everyone has been in a relationship since they’ve been born. Relationships are just too important to human existence to be ruled aside. From cradle till death, you just have to be in a relationship either natural or artificial, near or distant, familial or romantic… it’s just as though we do […]
You meet a guy, you ‘fall in love, start dating, get married and have children but you don’t enjoy your marriage. Why? Because there’s a girl whose main goal in life is to date a married man. Or the ones who go after married men because they need someone to […]
The saying goes that “20 friends don’t play together for 20 years”. I had always looked forward to breaking that saying with two of my friends I was beginning the countdown. However, things have gone south. Painful though, I wanted to laugh at that myth together with the two of […]
How much love can people give? Like, when is it ever enough? What standards do we use to measure love? How much affection can we give out? What’s the essence of love and to whom do we give it out? Would you please know that people don’t care how much […]
It’s all so crazy that you can offer a guy your head on platter coated with gold with generosity, kindness and goodwill screaming on the top of their voices but he will never appreciate it. Then, you begin to ask yourself, why? You question yourself, your actions, become overly self-critical. […]
Love is a very big deal these days. I’m beginning to think it’s a very big deal. The efforts put in, the strain on your mind, soul… Does it get easy at all? The idea of love? How do people deal with the thoughts of another person every day? How […]