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It’s all so crazy that you can offer a guy your head on platter coated with gold with generosity, kindness and goodwill screaming on the top of their voices but he will never appreciate it. Then, you begin to ask yourself, why? You question yourself, your actions, become overly self-critical. But the question is, ‘Is it worth all that trouble?’ You know that you can question yourself all year and you’ll never find an answer. Many Nigerian women or ladies believe that great cooking skills are the solution but if it is so many men would have gotten themselves a restaurateur. Though, food remains a way to a man’s heart. The notion remains. After all, women of a certain tribe have been known to take other women’s husband in Nigeria, so much that women of other tribes are wary of them. Or is it sex? Well, if it were that…

Love is a very big deal these days. I’m beginning to think it’s a very big deal. The efforts put in, the strain on your mind, soul…. How do people deal with the thoughts of another person every day? How do you deal with placing another person’s affairs in your hand? What is love? Definitely, dealing with the feelings with a partner who doesn’t care. Letting go is a big deal but when does letting go become the right thing to do. When does it feel like you should wait till it works? How long do you have to wait? Whatever you do, get peace of mind. Peace of mind is irreplaceable. Real love will come. Anybody that will stay will stay. I’m a firm believer that what will be, will be. Irrespective that the notion might be wrong. You can’t escape fate but you can certainly turn the hand…

How do you deal with a lover who doesn’t communicate? Or goes completely incommunicado on you? What do you do when efforts to reach out fail? I mean, a relationship is meant to be 100 percent. What happens when one of the two parties sets up a wall so high that words, emotions, and feelings can’t scale through? This is not just limited to lovers, family and friends who bear this communication problem. Once two people or more have a relationship based on familial grounds, friendship, or work, effort and intention should definitely be made to make communication flow effortlessly. Language scholars all agree that most of the world’s problems are caused by communication, and communication is the solution to most of these problems. How does your partner know that something is wrong when you don’t voice it? Ignoring him or her, cutting him or her off, and pushing them…

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