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WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO ASK A LADY OUT PROPERLY?

WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO ASK A LADY OUT PROPERLY?

Now, I am doing this because I am being pained when it comes to this particular topic. It’s not just about asking a lady out. It is about doing it rightly. Sincerely, a lot of you guys don’t know a thing about it. I am not saying this because I think I am an expert or because the whole world has asked me out. I’m saying it out of concern about the things some guys do. It’s so annoying.

WAYS GUYS DON’T ASK A LADY OUT PROPERLY

The way guys do these things have made me place a category on them when it comes to asking girls out. They are:

  1. The ones that don’t even know how to ask a lady out. They are just bad at it. They are frustrating, but, once their intentions are true, they are kind of the best.
  2. The ones that feel entitled. These ones are so proud, they feel girls should just fall at their feet and worship. The way and manner of asking a lady out comes with so much pride and ego, it is a total turnoff.
  3. The one that consider themselves experts. Too much sweet mouth. They are not so bad but hard to trust.
  4. Then, finally, the overly intellectual. These ones are the worst. They infuse a lot of smart words that have no bearing in the conversation leaving the young lady confused. They are a combination of the experts, the proud and the guys who don’t know how to ask a lady out. If you are interested in them, good. If you are not, wait for what is coming for you.

A friend of mine (a guy) once told me that there is nothing to asking a girl out. Now, asking out means different things to different people. It could mean asking for a phone number, a date or a relationship. He also said, ‘whatever you ask for, she already has her answer and it is either yes or no’.

All the whole drama, even if she abuses you, or takes your time, it is still a yes or a no.

But, I wonder why abuse a guy or waste his time (just keep him hanging for long). Ladies have their own issues at well.

Read Here: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?

The insults are not limited to ladies alone. I have heard guys call a lady several names because she said no.

A guy once told me I won’t find happiness because I said no or the guy that called my friend Queen Vashti.

Left to me there’s no one way to go about asking a lady out. Yes, nobody is an expert. To the shy guys, stop it and try. I wonder if guys are scared of rejection or their limitations.

After seeing the lady as an angel, all the sweet words and she says no, you now be like, ‘she no even fine, wetin I see’. You saw a lot, my brother, let’s stop this.

Get to know her. Once your intentions are true, ask her out. Get a no, move on. No insults, no shades.

My two cents on this. What do you think about this? Leave a comment below, join the conversation, let us know your view.

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