I get it. Sometimes, after a period of trying to explore and have fun, I hit a wall. From November 1st until today, I’ve felt that strong urge to go back to my cocoon. All this “breaking out” and “soaring” just isn’t feeling like my style anymore. It’s like I was trying to change who I am, and honestly, I’m not finding it cool. I’d much rather stay in my current zone, where things feel familiar and safe.
But then, everything began to shift. No power, bills piling up, a project topic I can’t nail down because my supervisor is swamped. It’s a reminder that even in my desired comfort zone, life still happens.

Dealing with life in my own comfort zone
Yes, I want to live life on my own terms, break out, soar, fly… but I have to enjoy it. I need to shed off a little extra load and, most importantly, not lose touch with who I am.
It’s so easy to fall into the trap of trying to do what others are doing, to “copy the world.” But like you said, you can’t fake it till you make it; you only fake it till you break it. I’ve learned that lesson firsthand.

So, for me, it’s about truly letting go of the reins but being anchored properly. Time’s short, and I don’t want to live to please or impress anyone. I want to do it only for myself and for God. Eventually, I believe everything will fall into place.
I’m learning to love life in its authentic form, to live life on my own terms within my own comfort zone, and to love God always. It’s about being myself, authentically and unapologetically, even if that means my “breaking out” looks a little different than someone else’s. And that, Honey, is how I’m having it today.
Love life. Live life. Love God. Be yourself.

Honey…
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